I need advice on how to help my son. He is a well-adjusted, popular kid and an average student. We have a good relationship with him. He has always been strong willed and we are careful to avoid power struggles with him. Unfortunately, we seem to have gotten ourselves into one now and I'm not sure how best to handle it. This summer we found child and adult porn on his computer. We took the computer away, made sure he understood that possession of child porn is a felony and that it is a major risk to the whole family, established a zero tolerance rule for all porn and gave him back the computer with new limits and rules. Last week I discovered that he was downloading both types of porn again within a couple of weeks of the incident this summer and has been downloading regularly since then. Again took away the computer and also took him for a consultation with a cognitive behavioral therapist who specializes in juvenile sex offending. He is to begin therapy next week. Because he went to the consultation and has agreed to therapy, we gave him back Internet access with filtering/monitoring software installed. This morning I discovered that he managed to uninstall the software. My question is this - he seems to be in power and control rebellion mode on this issue. He refuses to talk about it, is surly, has bad mouthed the therapist who he says believes he is a pedophile, and is playing games. How can I get out of this power struggle enough to help him lower his guard and benefit from therapy. His dad and I are very worried about him and that he may not take this seriously. Any advice?