my 14 year old lost her dad a year ago. This past year she got into alot of trouble suspensions, boys, rage, hospitalised 5 times for hurting self, diagnose with bypolar, experimented with a drug, lost friends, and now is in special ed. program. She gets intense therapy 3 times a week and is bussed home. We set rules and chores with therapist and was working fine. Every once in a every monthe theres an explosion things go well and then something happens were the anger comes out twards me. She hates me, i have never been there for her and tells me she just wishes i wasnt her mother. I have read your book wich has helped me understand her so much but she has already been evaluated for residential placement and i feel that things may get worst because of the anger she has with me. I dont what else to do for her to help her and be there for her. Please help me!!