Loser boyfriend problem

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[Posted for user by Admin]

This year, I have been having problems with my 19 yr old daughter. I am happy I picked up your book....... It has been an absolute blessing to me. Thank you! Ive read it over & over & over again. Basically the problem is that my daughter started hanging around with a bozo 5 1/2 years older.

This bozo has absolutely nothing going for him.... he doesnt even work. Yes, he has all the time in the world to do nothing..... but bother my daughter. Sandra is in College. She use to be so full of life, ambition & dreams..... She had lots of friends & was happy.

Now, this bozo seems to have taken total control over her & I am very scared. She has lost all her sparkle for life. She is always angry & unhappy. She is always ready to fight with me. She is very sarcastic about everything I do. She has dropped all her friends, even a very special fellow that she wanted to marry. Everything has changed about her. She doesnt even like her
favourite foods anymore. She has lost a lot of weight & always looks pale & fragile. I am very worried...... Of course she wont listen to me..... I have even tried writting letters & sending e-mails.

Doc, I dont want to see her wreck her life & her health. This bozo is real bad news & is dragging her down. Why cant she see this? You wouldnt believe what he has been able to talk her into. Id like to see him dissappear real fast. What can you advise? ... Im hurting a lot ......

Liz