Our son is 19 , his girlfriend is 15 , she is pregnant, her father is insisting she get an abortion. If she doesn't comply he says he will put our son in jail. He may not even be the father, our son will not hear of this , however I know he's thinking the same. He doesn't want to discuss it. He has not confronted the girl and has no plans too. We want to be there for him, however if is not his child. this situation will turn very ugly. Do we talk to this girls father? How can we approach the subject that he needs to make sure he is the father before he invests anymore into this?