My 18 yr old daughter has always had scoial anxiety just like me. We moved when she was a junior in HS. She didn't have many friends. She started seeing this boy from school he didn't dress like her or her friends, he had dyed black hair, sculls on his shirt etc.. He started controling all of her time. We had a good relationship, talked alot went out for lunch most sundays & went shopping. When we would go out he would constantly call and say things like "I paid someone to work for me so I could be with you" and she would want to go. Now we don't go out at all. He hangs out at her work all the time. She won't talk to me or her dad ever. He calls late at night on school nights (ex. 2:am) Her grades have dropped. She got admitted to a college and went out with him after she found out, came home and was on the phone with him for a long time crying. She said he didn't get admitted. Now she says she's not going to college. Which is something she has planned for and been excited about for a long time. She graduates in 2 months. I heard him call her a f**B** one night on the phone, they say its playful sarcasim, I say its abusive. Please Help.